what to do, when nobody will listen?

I am the type of person that likes to express myself & vent. I think a lot of people think im dramatic or just making it seem like everything is the end of the world.

I do not expect people to feel guilty or sorry for me, I JUST WANT THEM TO LISTEN. Is that really too much to ask?

Most of the time people judge you for what you are telling them and criticize you, when all you want them to do is listen.

Everybody has that one person they can go to and talk about everything too. Me? I’ve lost that person. I am all of a sudden considered annoying or dramatic.

I listen to what anybody has to say, I will not JUDGE you, I will not CRITICIZE you, I will sit there and listen but nobody will listen too me. I found yet to find anybody that will listen to me and not lecture me. Somebody that will just sit there and be there for me whenever I need it. But a lot of my friends will say you can talk to her/ him but my question is why can’t  I talk to you? Clearly you don’t want to hear what I have to say so..

WHAT KIND OF FRIEND DOES THAT MAKE YOU?

Think about it. Soak it in. Are the friend people always call when they need help or somebody to talk too?

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One thought on “what to do, when nobody will listen?

  1. julienmatei says:

    Finding someone to listen is hard nowadays…

    Most people are not friends with themselves. How can they befriend another?
    The ongoing inner dialogue in most of the people´s heads and souls is so overwhlming and unbearable, so even if they tried, to heed another person, they hear onlytheir inward noise…

    It´s hard…You have to learn accepting loneliness, learning to listen to yourself.

    Once you do that, you might bump into someone, who can hear and heed 🙂

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